I'm in a Love triangle and I need advice.?

No, but be true to your heart but look at what each offers. If you can't picture your life with the person you are with now, then there really is no hope. Look at the things you do, romantic or not, and find out what would make you want to be with her in the long run.

divorce your wife...& go after your true love!

Who do you love more? Who is more important to you?

If you still love your wife, you should come back to her. If you're unfulfilled with your married life, try to figure out what's lacking in your relationship. Talk to your wife. If it will help, sign up for a marriage counseling.

Good luck.

Well all I am gonna say, as a girl who has been cheated on, your wife doesn't deserve to be cheated on, lied to, and you don't deserve her for treating her that way. Either stop seeing the other woman or tell your wife the truth and let her go.

wow! u cheated on your wife and now u want our sympathy because you wanted Ur cake and eat it too?? Please u will be doing Ur wife a favor when u tell her the truth and she leaves u..shame on you!!

Divorce your wife. I hope you don't have kids. If you have no kids then this is a no-brain er.

Who do you feel most at ease with? If you're going to spend the rest of your life with this person you'd better be sure they make you happy and most of all give you peace. If you always feel 'alone' with your wife, like your playing a role, you should consider ending it especially as you say you've never been fulfilled. Bottom line: always go after the one you really want no matter what stands in your way. A word of advice if you ask your girlfriend for a long term relationship before splitting from your wife she may think you are hedging your bets and would not end your marriage if she won't commit to you. Sort out your marriage first,then address your relationship with your girlfriend.

Why do you feel torn know you've already broken the trust and the bond of your marriage, so keep thinking with your willie, your wife will be better off.

Marrige is a commitment.......sometimes it gets rocky.....the line you repeated back to the minister... til death do we part.........? I could go into the whole lust vs love discussion but in the end you are going to do what you do......in the back of your mind you have already decided what that is......just looking for some one to validate.......
divorce sucks.......been there done that......
peace

Be honest with yourself at this point you are never going to be faithful to anyone tell both of them the truth. Allow them to find someone that they can ** LOVE ** and ** TRUST ** give them a break.

WOW.........u r a player! Dam that sucks for the both of them! And now you let your emotions get the best of you and now you feel bad? give me a break dude! Grow up! Decide for yourself what is right and what feels right. I know that I am not going to even try to help you for you did this to yourself. I would say good luck but am too dam mad at you to care what you do! You are WRONG doing this to these women and you need help in the head dude! Grow up!

Yes I have been in this situation---its very difficult but you need to make a decision before you end up hurting one of them. You have to look at each persons qualities as well as their not too good things. I suggest you stay with your wife. Does the other girl know u are involved with someone else?? If she does she is not the right person; a person that really loves you will not accept this kind of relationship. Think about the whole situation and choose one-before they both find out and you end up with none.
I was in this same boat about 4 months ago--but in reality the one that was always there and would always be there was my live-in boyfriend and the other one became history CZ I didn't want to hurt anyone.
good luck!

I've been there.I've been married three times.Why?Because I cheated on my husband(s)and felt guilty!Tell your wife and let her decide what you should do.She will probably divorce you then you can do what you want.If you cheat again you will start that vicious cycle all over. Don't cheat!

u are cheating on your wife right now because she is far away from u. of course u want somebody to be with in times u need of loneliness. my husband cheated me once and i didn't have any clue at all. when he confessed, i felt so stupid that i didn't even get any clue from him. she might feel the same thing. u dint love the other girl. i am pretty sure of that even u say u do. it is because she is the one close to u right now and your wife is miles away. try to think this. is it worth ed to leave your wife with the other girl u just met a year ago? is it worth ed to forget your wife that u have known half of your life? if u would leave your wife and u are pretty sure that u will not regret it at all then go ahead. try to balance it. do u love your wife more or the affair u are in right now? when u go back with your wife, i bet u, u will forget the other girl. only u can decide whether to go on with your affair or leave your wife. if u think u can still work it out, go counseling.

enjoy...but watch out!!!and remember your responsibilities!

That's not love. That's just. A man who looks upon a woman
and thinks nasty he has committed lust in his heart. You need to leave the home wrecker alone. your wife will suspect something wrong. You are a married man. Act like one. Stop acting like the people on the soap operas. You area man. Be the man and stop messing around. Need to work
on your marriage. You are neglecting your wife's needs. How
can you have sex with both women? That's nasty!