Advice Please! What do I do?I found my love?

#1 (**permalink**) 04-29-2010, 08:23 PM

I had moved in with my Cu's after my mother left she saw i was depressed and one night she thought it would be a good idea to put her nice friend on the phone: we talked for a bit and that was that. as time passed my Cu's left to another state and Head call and we would talk.in time Igor my own apt and didn't talk to him for a while till my cousin got back and used my cell to call him. Once again we started talking almost every night we meet 8 months later and i was nervous cause i started to like him, I didn't care how he looked (not bad though).I wasn't until i moved to a city 2hours away form his that we got a little closer. I cared and trusted him as a friend we eventually slept together,(my1st) no regrets, but there was never a concrete relationship.When we go out of town we both miss each other. I dint see what i could do to make a relationship. I love him and its weird how we are with each other, he's my best friend.I dint want to loose him or push away, WHAT DO I DO?

#2 (**permalink**) 05-03-2010, 08:23 PM

When you find your love, you go GET it girl... or boy ;-)

#3 (**permalink**) 05-04-2010, 08:23 PM

Let what ever happens, happen. What is meant will be. I hope you get everything you want out of this. Love is hard to find when it is good. Just dint pressure anything.

#4 (**permalink**) 05-07-2010, 08:23 PM

I dint understand you are each others best friend and you have slept together? I would say you have a relationship. I think what you want to know is what kind of relationship. If you are really such good friends you should be able to talk this out and define your relationship. how often do you see each other? what do you do together? do you only meet for sex or do you have outings that have no sexual content? How do you feel about him? How do you think he feels about you?
Answer these questions and you will have a good idea of where you stand with this guy.

#5 (**permalink**) 05-11-2010, 08:23 PM

if i were you i would let him know how you feel, you never know he may feel the same way too and not know how to tell you.

#6 (**permalink**) 05-16-2010, 08:23 PM

it depends on if you want to get closer to him or not. You need to tell him how you feel & find out how he feels. Base a relationship on going out on weekend's & convent times for the both of you, & by all means, don't give up

#7 (**permalink**) 05-21-2010, 08:23 PM

wow what is Ur problem go for it stop worrying about what to do obviously you have done something right be yourself and enjoy the ride

#8 (**permalink**) 05-26-2010, 08:23 PM

Since you've been together for a while now and have already done the deed, open up with your buddy... Tell him what you feel... I know it's hard... but you have to face it, rather than not doing something... it will get you to nowhere... trust me... but don't be too pushy... it'll only make him go the other way... maybe he's not yet ready to commit... or too shy to talk about it... grab the chance... and whatever happens, ACCEPT IT... and go on with your life...