whats the most perfect advice to those who have fallen in love???

#1 (**permalink**) 01-22-2009, 07:27 PM

u see ... a person here told me yesterday that he loves me... i advised him a lot.... still no change... what can i do abet it... tell me pzazz

#2 (**permalink**) 01-27-2009, 07:27 PM

Is the problem that he loves you and you don't love him?

#3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 07:27 PM

To answer JUST the question, and not your youthful designs or definitions I offer this.

Enjoy the feeling as long as it lasts, as if every moment was a lifetime. Be prepared for the sensation that it may not last with "that one" chronologically speaking.

Learn and savor the feeling even just for yourself, and carry it with you to not only enjoy in being gifted with it, but in the ability to express it to all/many/ another.

Rev. Steven

#4 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 07:27 PM

Convince him not to be so naive, these feelings might be in the moment and totally impulse. He may just be infatuated, not in love. Heh Heh... find a way to say that to him without crushing him completely?

#5 (**permalink**) 02-03-2009, 07:27 PM

Enjoy it because nothing lasts forever, change be the only constant in life.. enjoy each moment of that love.

#6 (**permalink**) 02-04-2009, 07:27 PM

The best advice that I can give you about love is to follow your head and not your heart. anything worth having is worth working for and never settle for less.

#7 (**permalink**) 02-06-2009, 07:27 PM

you can reply , if you wanted to, I love you as a friend too....... that way he knows you aren't feeling more for him than just friends....

#8 (**permalink**) 02-11-2009, 07:27 PM

dint screw up!!!