Dos he really love me??? need an advice..?

#1 (**permalink**) 11-21-2008, 07:29 PM

Juz want to seek an advice regarding my ex bf.Wev been together last 2004 but after a month we broke up
A month after we broke up, i was surprised because he transfer ed here in our office. We've been in the same workplace since December 2004 till now. Were still friends,we always talked to each other, he always text me every morning before i woke up and every night before i sleep. We always go out for dinner before we went home.When it was his day off, he always went here in office to pick me up.After work,we went to mall and watched movies.He's always in our house every weekend and when there's an occasion. From December till now, we were like DAT acting like that as if we didn't broke up.There was a time when we talked about the two of us.He asked me if i miss him.At first i dint know what to answer,then after minutes of silence, i told him yes..He then told me DAT he still love me.He always tell me DAT thing when the two us are together.My question is,is it true?does he love me?

#2 (**permalink**) 11-25-2008, 07:29 PM

it would indicate so. he is showing all the signs of genuine affection towards you so he must still care about you deeply. i think that it might be easier for him to sustain this relationship like this, without actual verbal agreement.

i think your status is seeing each other/non committed. i do, though, think he still loves ya!

#3 (**permalink**) 11-28-2008, 07:29 PM

There is a difference between loving someone in a sexual manner and feeling endearment towards a person.
Maybe he loves you and does not feel the need to be in a committed relationship. You have to consider his life. Maybe he has family that he loves, like a mother and father that he lives with. You are letting him get too comfortable if there is no real commitment there.

#4 (**permalink**) 11-30-2008, 07:29 PM

I think he loves you, and he cares very much for you.

#5 (**permalink**) 12-04-2008, 07:29 PM

i think if you love him and you believe him when he says he loves you you wouldn't be asking people you dint know

#6 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 07:29 PM

Remember this before you think of love think of being best friends. You got to like each other before you can be in love or it is only sex.
Do you like to be around him?
Sound like he likes to be around you Lil.
Do you enjoy just talking with him about different things in life?
Do you feel comfortable when you are with him?
How do you really feel about him inside in the special place in your heart?
All of these things you got to think of before love. You got to have them all.