Please HELP I NEED LOVE ADVICE?

#1 (**permalink**) 01-21-2009, 07:36 PM

there is a guy i really like, but he is 17, and i am 14. i have liked him for a year. he is really nice to me and we talk a lot...I'm not going to tell him how i fell because he is my best Friends cousin.... but i want to know how to get him to like me without me being to obvious!!!!! HELP

#2 (**permalink**) 01-22-2009, 07:36 PM

talk to your best friend... she can be match-maker

#3 (**permalink**) 01-27-2009, 07:36 PM

Go out with someone your own age.

#4 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 07:36 PM

Just be his friend and the rest will happen real soon.

#5 (**permalink**) 02-03-2009, 07:36 PM

Be kind and nice and suggest going out for coffee.

#6 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 07:36 PM

If you have liked him for a year and as you say you talk alot you shouldn't have to get him to like you he should already like you 4 u and if he doesnt you can find better your only 14 dont fall for the first cute older guy you see theres plenty more hot ones out there!!! You cant by love or make it happen it just does!!!!!!!

#7 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 07:36 PM

babe if he likes you don't you think he would already tell you? baby sometimes we tend to see things where there is actually nothing we might be confusing love with friendship, slow down don't hurry up yourself time will tell if you were meant to be, better have him as friend then if you see he really likes you the way you like him then go ahead good luck!!

#8 (**permalink**) 02-13-2009, 07:36 PM

well honey i had that problem dint try it because they just end up playing with your feelings i just dint want u to get hurt

#9 (**permalink**) 02-18-2009, 07:36 PM

don't even worry about all that anyway CZ I'm taking his ass in a couple of weeks

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#10 (**permalink**) 02-21-2009, 07:36 PM

Honey sometimes you can't make things happen unless you have a magic wand. Guys that are 17 more than likely aren't looking at girls who are 14 anyway because he may be thrown in jail next year. Now things in life happen for a reason. Don't push things to happen because you might destroy what could happen in a week or in a year. Just be a good friend to him and get to know him and his style. Soon you can pop up with things he likes, be interested in some of the same things he's interested in too. You are young and so is he...the older you are the wiser you are so you may benefit from holding off until you two are mature enough to really enjoy each other.

#11 (**permalink**) 02-23-2009, 07:36 PM

Sorry, girl, but he'd be a creep if he agreed to go out with you. The age difference won't be a big deal once you're 18 and he's 21, but right now you two are not on the same emotional level. In another year he can get into a lot of trouble for even kissing you, let alone doing anything else that you are both going to want to do. If you really like him, wait. If he likes you back and is any kind of gentleman, he will wait for you. In the meantime be his friend and keep in touch with him. When you're older you'll have all this history to fall back on. I know it is hard to see what the future will bring but you would be much better off just being his friend.

#12 (**permalink**) 02-28-2009, 07:36 PM

The age difference is significant between 14 and 17 and is not significant between 20 and 23. The maturity levels are different. He may find himself in a statutory rape situation in a year or less. Not fair, but a possibility. With love comes responsibility. I think you need to back off and realize that when you play with fire; you get burned. Turn your attention to more appropriate ages such as 13-15 to play the crush game. Good luck and be a child for as long as you can.

#13 (**permalink**) 03-03-2009, 07:36 PM

because he is my best friends cousin.... this part of your question gets triggers me to answer your question, I've been feeling the same with you last 20 years before almost same story,I'm also thinking that the world will stop moving if i can not see her,I've been feeling it for more than 10 years even if I'm married already,the worst is we love each other and became lovers,for two years before ,time goes by and changes everything including our love and feelings,time heals the wound of forgetting each other, then we've recovered ourselves after so many years then it could be like yours and his feeling,you will forget each other sooner or later,time will help you.....don't worry....