My bf's best friend loves me. Advice?

#1 (**permalink**) 05-17-2010, 08:41 PM

K so my bf and I started dating 6 months ago. Before I dated him I dated his best friend for a month. It was nothing special at all. So 5 months after we broke up I started dating his best friend and we've been dating since. Well right before we got together his best friend was wanting to get back together with me and I was saying no. Well when we finally did T (the ex) and B (the boyfriend) didn't talk for like 3 weeks. Then B just went up to T and said "Things are just over with you two, okay? She's not into you." and T said "I don't buy it." That same conversation between the two of them has happened since then a few times also. But I love B. And T is just standing in the way. Help?
Sorry I didn't make that clear. When me and B finally got together, T was really really pissed at B

#2 (**permalink**) 05-18-2010, 08:41 PM

You shouldn't have went with his friend. You seem to like causing friction between friends. That is mean and you should be ashamed of yourself. How you can feel OK with it is just plain sad for you.

#3 (**permalink**) 05-19-2010, 08:41 PM

You shouldn't let anything get in the way of you and your love/happiness/B. Do what you can to keep T away because you dint want anything he does or says to affect the way B feels about you.

#4 (**permalink**) 05-20-2010, 08:41 PM

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha well you should go out wit a guys best friend after you go out wit the guy so i cant help u sry

#5 (**permalink**) 05-25-2010, 08:41 PM

I think that you have to talk to t....yourself. also, ask b to hold you and kiss u and act like a total lover whenever t is around. Hug him and compliment b and kiss him, t should get the picture.
~Reyanne~

#6 (**permalink**) 05-27-2010, 08:41 PM

I'm confused.. so u got Baku together with Ur ex?
"Well right before we got together his best friend was wanting to get back together with me and I was saying no. [Well when we finally did] T (the ex) and B (the boyfriend) didn't talk for like 3 weeks."
just go with the person u love, and u should talk to T and tell him that u dint love him anymore, that will cause B a lot less trouble because T doesn't believes him.