i need advice about school and love ?

#1 (**permalink**) 05-12-2010, 08:41 PM

OK .. i m going to study medicine and that mean 6 years of my life but i have a guy who wants marry and move to another country ..that mean now - in this moment- so i have this emotional problem i dint know what to do ? .. is very probable he feel sad , he just told me "I?m older, I have 32 years and I really want a family and I now this is a opportunity for you" ..so is fine study and congratulation !
I dint know!!! i dint want lose my school and i dint want lose the guy ... and ...both things need " time" .... i dint KO !!! can you tell me your opinion .. in this moment..

I can?t see which the correct answer is? can you tell me how you look my situation of your position ? thanks maybe dint fix nothing but i need a few words ..thanks !

#2 (**permalink**) 05-16-2010, 08:41 PM

think for the future!!! high paying career or a guy that wants to marry you and move away....does he love you? will it pay off in the future, i dint mean to compare love and money, but you cant walk off a building thinking you can fly

#3 (**permalink**) 05-19-2010, 08:41 PM

School is very important and a degree is forever. If your fiance love you the way that you love him he would realize how important this is to you. I think you should go to school. Higher education is crucial in today?s society. While a degree in medicine can pretty much guarantee a promising future, a marriage can't guarantee anything. I strongly believe in stability and faith. You can't change your destiny or his. If you two are meant to be together you will be together.

#4 (**permalink**) 05-24-2010, 08:41 PM

As I see it you have two choices 1. Go to school and become a doctor, let him go overseas and after you finish school the two of you can get married. 2. You can forget about school, get married have kids and hate every minute of your life because you did not fulfill you liefs dream. There is another possibility: you could get married, go to school for six years and int erupt your schooling to have children and maybe finish school in ten to twelve years. Remember this most opportunities for your future only happen once in a lifetime.