I need good love advice.?

#1 (**permalink**) 05-02-2010, 08:41 PM

my boyfriend and I broke up after a fight, we have talked a Lil and he sounds like he regrets it. he never said it but that's how he is. we r supposed to exchange our stuff today and I really am afraid this is the end. we agreed to be friends but the idea of him with someone else sickens me. I love him so much and see myself growing old with him, he is under a lot of stress and so am I ( I have cancer he's leaving for basic and is fighting for custody of his daughter). I found out he still is there for me, even tho I am not being clingy. I want him back but I am scared, I think I may have ruined our only chance. please help.

#2 (**permalink**) 05-04-2010, 08:41 PM

You've heard the saying if you love someone let them go, and if they return they are yours forever.

#3 (**permalink**) 05-05-2010, 08:41 PM

SO, Tell him how you feel and go from there. Don't expect him to know what is going on in your head..COMMUNICATION- it help a relationship.

#4 (**permalink**) 05-07-2010, 08:41 PM

do occasionally contact him (via emails, phone calls) to keep the relationship alive. Then find a time to meet him for dinner.
Then try to make up during the dinner ...get close to him to hint you like to go back to the old times...

#5 (**permalink**) 05-10-2010, 08:41 PM

Its quite possible he feels exactly the same way. I'd say take exactly what you put down and take that to him. If you're emotional about each other I guess that means you love each other!

#6 (**permalink**) 05-15-2010, 08:41 PM

just tell him that you still love him ,, and send him this poem..

I knew I loved you before I met you
I think I dreamed you into life
I knew I loved you before I met you
I have been waiting all my life

hazem02@yahoo.com

http://www.thestarlitecafe.com/poems/92/poem_765499.html

please read more poems and leave me your comment ..
yours
Haze

#7 (**permalink**) 05-17-2010, 08:41 PM

Tell him how you feel when you two go to do the exchange. Its really up to him to decide what to do. Its between the two of you so work it out with one another. Its really your only option.
-NmD!

#8 (**permalink**) 05-19-2010, 08:41 PM

if you love him get him back

#9 (**permalink**) 05-23-2010, 08:41 PM

Tell him plainly how you feel be completely honest with him, but remember guys are NOT emotional by nature they act. If you want him back tell him asap, do not waste time AC know do over think go with your gut. If he feel the same about you then he will take you back. Say your sorry for the fight even if you where right remember guy do not think they same as you and deal with stress in difference ways the you do. relationships are not easy they take harder work and must work at it each day. You must choose to be to getter.

#10 (**permalink**) 05-27-2010, 08:41 PM

Is It Real Love..............