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I met Katie about three years ago at the gym. We were always friendly to each other. After a a year I tried to ask her out but she told me that it was not possible to go out with me at that point in her life (whatever that means). After that we were not so comfortable with each other. She tried her best to avoid me and told me that I was too pushy. I forgot about her and moved on. I have not seen her in a long time but last time I saw her, our eyes could not hide and then I knew that she had feeling for me as well.
I sent her a card no reply, email no reply. Today after one year by coincidence we sat next to each other in church. It is customary to hold hands during part of the service and we did. Our eyes again could not hide, how glad we were to see each other. I am honestly tired of trying after three years to get her. I feel that now if she really cares about me she can send me an email, or call. She has all my numbers and emails. What should I do ?
Wow, I guess thank you all! Lil.
If by a random chance I see her next time, I will just talk to her as a friend. End of the movie. It is so easy to give advice.
Let her make the move, and if she doesn't, then move on. It sounds like in the beginning, you were reading too much into the situation, and you ended up making her uncomfortable....she basically told you this when she said you were being pushy. Three years is long enough, if she were interested, she would have welcomed your advances by now. Please move on, and find someone that will welcome your love and advances.
She probably thinks you're sweet, but if she was really interested she wouldn't have waited 3 years and still not actually spoken to you. Unless she's impressively stupid.
Sweetie, the only thing you can do at this point is move on with your life. Don't put your life on hold for something that may not be. However, if you ever move or change any of your emails or numbers, you can always keep one the same, just in case she ever comes around. But don't get your hopes up, that way you don't have too far to fall when they do come down.
she doesn't like you bud, didn't even sound she ever did. just because a girl looks at you don't mean she likes you. there are other way more powerful signs and staring just isn't a good reliable indication, especially it's the only one if even that. she is probably stares feeling flattered and just observing your feelings and nothing more. kinda how you look at a squirrel at a distance and the squirrel stares back.
Dang! 3 years! Let's make a movie out of this. What's wrong with you man? Don't you think 3 years is hint that she's not into you. But he res the deal, just to be sure, ask her out by telling her that you like her very much! If then she still says no then you that's it! MOVE ON! Don't be pathetic. The eye contact and all that stuff is probably her just admiring the fact that she is adored from you, that's all!
I need advice! I love her. What do you think ?
