i need advice! LOVE or STABILTY? would you rush into marriage if you were getting old

#21 (**permalink**) 08-08-2010, 08:49 PM

Never rush into marriage, no joke, to go into one is easy & fairly unjustly (if you choose simple wedding) and happy...but to get out of it.. it's bitter, anger, frustration and VERY expensive ! You need lawyers to do everything to settle the divorce, and the emotional turmoil is even greater with kids !!

Pls, do not marry for the sake of age, biological clock, peer pressure etc. Take my word for it .

#22 (**permalink**) 08-11-2010, 08:49 PM

i believe love is all around us, but we keep our self blind from it... will marriage is all about love and nothing to do with stability or security.. if you love someone that you want him/her for the rest of your life then it is time for you to marry him/her.. love conquers all you don't want him/her suffer rather you will do everything to support him/her and your future family...

#23 (**permalink**) 08-16-2010, 08:49 PM

I know the feeling of being 'left out' or 'I'm NT in a pair'.. but hey..marriage is sacred...bliss... why you gotta rush..it's for a lifetime commitment..do it when you're ready..don't rush..its time for your friends but it does not mean you gotta fit in.