I need an advice.. i am in love to a guy who is married...what am i to do i really lo

Say goodbye and move on IMMEDIATELY. Married men are off limits and you are immature if you think you can change that. He won't divorce her, he'll keep you on the side - and it's the worst position to be in. Don't be a home wrecker - trust me, you're not worth it. Move on and seriously grow up.

Why would you even want this creep? Think about his wife. You think YOU hurt? The guy LIED to you and then says he's happily married?

You need to get over this in a hurry. This guy is a LOSER!

Nothing good will come out of falling for a married man. For being happily married, why did he pretend he wasn't? He doesn't sound like the most honest person is the world. Wonder what his wife would think if she knew he was going around telling people he wasn't married.

Elana, you have to get over him and move on or else it will drive you crazy. You seem like a nice girl, i am sure there is lots of guys out there who would love to have a Chang to get to know you. Try.

dint go to it,he is a cheat nor he wouldn't have lied u,so forget him,try to put Ur brains somewhere else ,nor u r sure to fall n deep trouble,he will surely going to SE u n throw,even if he starts loving u,than u r go in to break a house,dint g such bully,Caz u will nd in middle dont know wat to do,or be his KEEP?,DO u want to be a keep? .....itz a practical suggestion ,either u take it or not,but dont regreat in future......as it may fruit nothing........

First of all your playing with fire and if your not careful your gonna get burnt.

he's married. as soon as he told you that you should have told him to kiss your ***. he doesn't respect you at all or he wouldn't have lied to you in the first place, and he's not much of a man if he's cheating on his WIFE. you deserve a real man that will love you and care for you the way you need. move on and don't look back!!!

He is not yours, he is someone Else's.

Don't be naive, he will never leave his wife and kids for you.

He wants the cake and eat it too and you are letting him.

Find someone that is available and is not a liar and a cheater.

Don't be a home wrecker... wait.. you already are.

This is what you get and will only get to be dating married men: heartache and a bad reputation.

his heart already belongs to someone else...so move one. you will get over him unless you are completely weak....you need to let it go and make yourself available to find the real Mr. Right

You're so stupid. I was stupid when I was there so not judging. Move away. Leave yourself no opportunity to see him since you have no discipline. He's a liar for one. He said he wasn't married then he said he is happily married. So now you know he is just a cheat. Cheat on her, cheat on you. Don't be stupid. Too many single good men in the world to get sprung like this. Think of yourself not your heart. Your heart is wicked and only wants what it wants when it wants. Do what is right fair and just. God's blessings and wisdom to you.

aw I'm sorry you are going through this. Say goodbye and don't look back, it will be tough but after time you will hardly think about whats his face. If you do end up with him why would you ever trust him? you already know he is a cheater.

As hard as it is let him go. He is a loser 2 start with. He is married. He will only get what he wants from u then throw u 2 the side. Let him go. Time heals all wounds. U will hurt 4 a while BUT then u will b somewhere and out of the blue u will meet someone who will sweep u off Ur feet and he will not have any commitments 2 any1 BUT u. Hang in there and good luck. If u don't like that advice go with the old wives tale....."Let him go and set him free, If he returns it was meant 2 b".

Get over him as much as you can,he shouldn't have let it get that far, he might do the same thing to you if he leaves his wife but don't think he will. Get out and meet someone else.

You need to leave him alone. He lied to you, and he is married. It may seem like you will never love anyone again, but trust me, you will. Think of it this way, if he decided to leave his wife and run to you and you married him then what do you have, a husband that has a history of cheating. He is no good for you no matter how much you love him.

I think you should pour acid on his car and put a bunny to boil on his stove at his house.

I am a newly wed. I got married a year and a half ago. Take it from me, as a married woman and a wife, you will be looked at as a horrible person, and/or a victim. A married man not only is off limits, but a bad situation to be with.

If that guy was my husband, I'd be ticked off at him, one for lying to you about not being married, two for stringing you along, and three, most of all for lying to me and breaking our sacred marriage vows. Those vows are said in front of dearest friends and family and I take them seriously.

Also, if my husband ever cheated on me, you can bet your boots that I would do everything I could to make him pay, financially. You wouldn't want to be with my husband after I was through with him. He would have to move back in with his mommies.

Also, there's the saying, "If he'll do it FOR you, he'll do it TO you." If he will divorce his wife to be with you, whose to say that in years to come another chick younger than you won't come and steal him from you?

I just see you as a victim, not as a bad person. You seem vulnerable and young. This guy is a creep for lying to you. Think about his integrity. He has none. He's lying to his wife and he lied to you. What kind of person does this? You deserve a guy that will devote his life and all his heart to you. You need a guy that will die for you. You need a guy that has integrity, an education, and a conscience. Move on, have a good cry and get him out of your head. A married man is just a mess and will only bring you heart break.

I hope his wife knows or finds out about this, so she can move on from this creep too.

have some self respect for yourself. married men are or should be off limits to you single girls. relationships like that are dysfunctional.
he used and manipulated you. you are in love with a fantasy. grow up, move on, get over it.

I'd say, don't look He ( Mr. Right ) will come when you least expect it. The man you fell in love with was just in the way of your blessing to come girlfriend. It won't be long when Mr. Right steps in. You've had a closed heart all this time, Let it go girl. And if you try to go back to him your just only hurting your heart more. He is not going to leave her for you if he hasn't by now Good Luck!