Did he catch my feelings from the love song lyrics?

change in life · #1 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 06:29 AM

he is my colleage, and we aslo become friends. He is good looking, but kidda of lonely somehow. last week he got sick, and I was there to be around, we talked over the phone almost everyday, I call him, and he calls me......you know.....some interactions.............. yesterday I sent a love song with lyrics to few close friends, and he is one of them on the mail list. I sent it because I am indeed love this song, and the song kidda expressing my feeling to a guy.yeah, I was kidda of hoping he can be mine, but I haven't thought about going forward, you know , just thinking..........yesterday I gave him a call, he didn't answer, it's been 1 day, and he hasn't returned my call, I am wondering if he catches something from the lyrics????? but I didn't send to him alone.What should I do now? I don't want things to get awkward, or am I thinking too much? why isn't he call back if he thinks we are just friends?

preggy gurl · #2 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 07:56 AM

maybe something in the lyrics caught him, like his own feelings perhaps. for all you know, he likes you just as much. or he might be thinking about it if he suspects that you like him and what should he do about it. give him so time, he cant run away forever right. dont bug him though, he'd be long gone before you know it.

lynnette r · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 04:46 PM

the best you can do is wait - no one can jump to conclusions - be patient - tell us the outcome (hope it works in your favor) - good luck

xtra0 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 09:27 AM

honey, guys unfortunately don't get'hints'. if you want him, tell him flat out instead of sending him mixed messages. if he doesn't want you, better to know now than later.

Doeffy · #5 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 02:56 PM

if you dont wanna hurt yourself you have to forget him...I was years ago in the same situation.Its not working.He is not give you a call cause he dont think that you are just friends from your side...

WordsOfWisdom · #6 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 11:42 PM

i think you are just overreacting. even if he was a little weirded out by the love song, if you sent it to more than just him, he must have noticed that. he may just be really busy and that's why he hasn't called. no worry too much about it. the more your thoughts dwell on it, the worse you think the situation actually is