I have a Boy friend&Need MALE advice?

xorangesweetiex · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 05:50 PM

Ok so i'm in college and I am excited because i have my first real serious bf!!!!!!!!!! what should i do to keep him around ?1. going out on dates2. the phone calling thing (I never ever call i always wait for him to call is that ok?)3. sex stuff&how to prevent cheating or being used

Captian Pessimism · #2 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 12:54 PM

call him, guys don't want to have to do EVERYTHING...If we do everything and you just sit there it gets old, fast. As much as we like to pretend we don't care about anything, we like when you do stuff for us...

Dear Mr. President · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 03:02 PM

just go out and have fun get drunk and have fun, but deff call him its nice for him to know your thinkin of himask him to watch the Dallas Cowboys game with him go to the golfing range or shooting range

Daniel · #4 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 07:20 AM

Just let him know that you like his company. #3 is a good way to lose his respect quick

The Colonel · #5 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 02:33 PM

1. Relax! 2. Just be calm, but remember he's just as nervous as you too so don't feel alone.

Kayleigh J · #6 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 04:42 PM

Just be open and trust each other. Be open to try things and do different things. It wont hurt you to call him, it shows him you are interested and that you care about him. Dont rush into having sex, it will happen when you both think your relationship is ready to take that step. Best of luck to you and your relationship.

kaiors23 · #7 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 04:12 AM

yea all that works. Just make sure u dont get serious until he does. Keep the relationship light until he wants to take it deeper. also, just be yourself and think about all the things you have wanted to do if u had a boyfriend. Now, go do them with him. and for god sake, dont not call him, u already got him, if u dont call he will think yer not interested and loose interest in you. u dont want that. Just dont call him too much. As far as cheating goes, it is birthed out of insecurity..sooooooooo if your insecure and cant be alone, chances are u will cheat. Just think about what it would feel like if he cheated on u! that will help u stay faithful! good luck makin memories!

chicadee2305 · #8 (**permalink**) 03-30-2009, 05:16 AM

This is a tuff one. You want to call but not to much. Dont let him walk all over you. Show him you can hold your own and that you dont need to be taken care of. Always be open minded. Dont act jealous even if you are. I think if you be yourself and not change for them then you will be okay. You have already caught his attention or yall wouldnt be dating. Be who you are as if you were when yall first met. Thats where alot of us go wrong we get comfortable with the way things are going and when we do that we tend to change and let ourselves go. All guys are different and exspect differnet things. Always spice things up in the bedroom. I hope is helps and good luck with your new relationship...