how do I teach him a lesson? male advice preferable?
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how do I teach him a lesson? male advice preferable?
Basically I started speaking to this guy through facebook, I added him on, he gave me his number, i texted him but he took a day to reply, so I texted him asking him why he even bothered giving me his number if he couldn't reply and his answer was"how he was a busy man and had a lot of things to do"fair enough, he's 21 btw. Anyway, one night he called me and spoke to me for hours, he was quite flirtatious, i told him how i had recently seperated from a marriage and would never become serious with another man. We met the next day, started talking and one thing led to another but no intercourse. I invited him over the next day, but he made excuses, so i got mad and told him how I had cooked for him, he was surprised and askd what i had cookd and within minutes he came over but never ate??? we hit it of, this time, yes, we had intercourse, oral sex etc. I started developing feelings for him and told him about him, but he said he didnt want anything serious but still wanted to be mates, i said how it was impossible and hung up. The next day he started poking me on facebook and started putting these weird status updates"i miss someone"etc. but he never called me. That evening I texted him, and within seconds I got many texts back, very sweet messages. But when I call him, he says how he's always busy. I have come to the conclusion that he likes playing these mind games with women coz he's a prick, he deserves to be taught a lesson, and I need all the help I can get. I want to mess with his mind the way he messed with mine.
Sounds to me like he's married buddy ...... seems odd that he's always busy when you call but when you text he responds quickly ........ maybe that's why it appears that he's playing games ... he is ...... don't plot your revenge on him buddy .. just move on and let it go ..... forgive him for being so selfish or it will surely crush your beautifull spirit.peace baby♥
Tell him your husband has been away in Central America training guerrilla fighters how to kill with their bare hands and he is due back any day.BTW I think ur new bf is married.
I think your mind was messed up before this! Everything in your question says that you threw yourself at this man and he (being male) took full advantage of it! Forget him!You sound like one of many women I have met over the years that prefer the danger, the unobtainable, go with the good looks, because the personality I can change. Well 99 times out of a hundred you won't! Do you have a male friend who is boring, but very nice and helpful? Go out with him, you'll be a lot happier and safer in the long run!
You messed yourself up, don't blame him. You made yourself an easy mark. Go for counseling and learn how relationships should develop before playing games. You should know a lot more about someone before you begin physical relationships. For one thing, your behavior shows him how"needy"you are. He can play you for all you are worth. If you want to set yourself up, keep playing these games. If you want a serious relationship, learn how to develop one and learn some"maturity"behaviors, like delaying gratification.If I were you, I would smarten up and stop contacting him. He's manipulating you; would you still want him after that? What would that say about you?
how do I teach him a lesson? male advice preferable?
