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GUYS- TRANSLATION PLEASE!!!!? MALE ADVICE?? I would really appreciate it....?
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Old 12-24-2008, 03:21 AM
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THIS QUESTION IS LONG SO IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE MATURITY TO READ IT THE DON'T WASTE MY TIME ANSWERING IT.I'm a Junior in high school.it all started in the 8th grade...I was with my friends and he was with his. I turned around and he was staring at me. I've never had eye contact like that before. it's really hard to explain but I'll try. it was almost like he was seeing through me and it truly felt like everyone and everything else had disappeared for a couple of seconds only because we were so focused on each other. we stared at each other back and forth for at least an hour, both of us too nervous to make a move. my friend and I left and I didn't think much of the whole thing. I was one of those flirty, social kind of girls so it was just fun for me.next time I saw him was grade 9 at high school. I turned around and he was staring at me. I didn't have any classes with him but he would stare at me every time I saw him in the hallway and look away when I looked back. sometimes I would act like I didn't notice just to see how long he would stare. I found out his name from a friend of mine. I asked her about him and she said he was smart and told me about a presentation that he had done about anti depressants. he said that his mom had hyper thyroidism and was on the pills. my mom had hyper thyrodism too. really ironic things would happen...like we never had any classes together but we just so happen to pass each other in a big high school with over 2,000 people a couple times a day for two years. there's a twist in the story though...I had changed a lot since he first saw me. I was struggling with depression and had became very antisocial, careless about making friends and my school work, and rude; the exact opposite of how I was when he first saw me.the whole staring thing went on from around winter time to the end of the year.Over the summer I thought'okay, this guy doesn't even know me. there's no way he still likes me.'first day of school of my sophmore year. I was looking at my schedule. I looked up and he was staring at me. I wasn't so much depressed at this point but I had become very shy because I wasn't used to talking to people. we have an advisory period where they take attendence and coincidentally mine was right next to his. I was recruited to be in a group that a couple of his close friends are in. we both just so happen to have the same english class the same period right across the hall from each other and it seemed like we would always end up in the hallway at the same time near each other. he would always stare at me every time he saw me. this deep, penetrating stare that I've never had before. all of these coincidences and we had never even spoken to each other before.I'm a Junior now and every time he sees me he acts like I'm not there. there were a couple of times when he was looking at me and he thought I didn't notice but my attitude is just"whatever. take it or leave it"I don't know if he just gave up or felt like I rejected him but I guess it doesn't really matter now and what is meant to be will be.I was leaving class (his class is right next to mine) and talking to one of my friends. I noticed when he came out he was looking at me but I'm not sure if he was listening. coincidentally when I started walking like 3 or 4 of his friends were next to me and in front of me and he was behind me. he was cussing like every other word. lol seriously. I turned to look at him and he just stopped talking and it got really quiet. I turned around and kept walking and he went back to his cussing.I was wondering if it meant anything that it got so quiet and that he stopped? or why did his friends look at me when I was walking between them?I appreciate it if you've made it this far!!

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Old 12-28-2008, 10:22 AM
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Wow...just freakin talk to the guy already. He could be your future husband or somethin...
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Old 03-05-2009, 10:30 PM
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just go up to him and talk to him. he's probably dying to say something, but he just doesn't know what to do.
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Old 03-21-2009, 09:54 PM
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First...half of that was unnecessary to write.Second.... he sounds like a creeperThird.... He has a little crush on youFourth... If yall have never talked.... try talking to himFifth... If you don't like him then don't worry about it hahaha... He is just a weirdo
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Old 03-29-2009, 02:44 PM
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most likely? he likes you. a lot of guys do this to show that we like someone, but know we cant get to them.

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