How does this feel for you guys?

Ok, here is a question guys.

I have met someone and not that it is my common practice, but under given circumstances, I spent a night with him after having seen him only a very few times (maybe 4). Now, I did it, because there was no more time to get to know each other and also because I really liked him. I mean REALLY. Now...I was suspicious he did not feel the same. But anyway. When we closed the door, I actually told him I was not there to have sex with him. I was there to spent time with him (after we already kissed a lot that evening). I was still the one who started all the touching again in his bed. He was a bit drunk, too. Now, he tried to take of my jeans, I still said no sex. Anything, just not sex. Then we fell asleep. Woke up, all again (jeans still on after his attempts to take them of). Woke up in the morning (he was not drunk anymore), again. Still telling him NO SEX. Only once during the day we actually kissed gently without him getting all over me. But then once more again taking my belt off still trying....

Ok. Now the question. Is it guys really so hard to keep back? I suppose everyone is different, too, but, honestly....is it too hard or was he really just trying to get sex? By the way. I was pretty honest with him and told him in the middle of the night, that I really liked him....he still was not very respectful (to my opinion) to my feelings and decision not to have sex. I told him I was not a girl for 1 night.

What do you think???

Thanks for your answers.

In all honesty at face-value it kind-of sounds like he's just trying to get in your pants, but it also may have been a mis-interpretation of feelings.