How do you help Oedipus Complex in 29 yo male?

alaskasourdoughman · #1 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 02:54 AM

Need to help a 29 yo male with sever Oedipus complex personality disorder: relates to females as mother love, sleeps with them but no sex. likes to cuddle and be waited on, excessive verbal communication with females. He is bi-sexual, has gay sex with older men (he likes to receive oral sex for money), doesn't establish any longer-term relationship with women or men. He suddenly disappears and ends a starting relation by running away, ceasing all communication. He is otherwise a handsum, smart, cordial young man. Women fall in love with him, but then are disappointed when no return love, no sex, and disappears after living with them for 6 months to a year. Need help reaching him, helping him understand his Oedipus complex. Any suggestions?

myyahooanswersaccount1184 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 10:25 PM

Not to sound cruel, but the only way to reach someone with that much personal trauma embedded in them is through psychiatric help. If you contact any professional psychiatrists in your area, they should be able to provide you with a plan or someone who will help you to help your friend get the help he needs.

pirate00girl · #3 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 02:31 PM

that doesn't sound like a true oedipus complex to me. sounds like a selfish man who wants to have his cake and eat it too, while taking advantage of whomever he can get to fulfill his needs of the moment. hmmm, could be a narcissistic personality disorder.

Nicholas J · #4 (**permalink**) 03-28-2009, 07:16 AM

Yeah shut up and blow me.