Young black female talking to an OLDER white male..NEED ADVICE??!?

♥R.LichFan08!!♥® · #1 (**permalink**) 12-31-2008, 08:13 AM

So, I have been talking to this older guy who I am really interested in. He is really cool, BESIDES the fact he always talks about sex in a vile manner with me. I mean, when our conversation is good, its good...but when he goes on his sex raves it is VERY bad...it's disgusting some of the things he says. I am a young black female and he is a middle aged white male. I met him while at work, and I think he only talks to me to divulge in his fantasy of being with a black woman since he told me he never has. What should I do??

Babyy Love. · #2 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 09:46 PM

ignore/avoid him!! he's only going to use you.if hes just talking to you to fulfill his fantasies.. then you deserve someone better.don't talk to him anymore!good luck!

jenxxox · #3 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 01:17 PM

omgsh thats just... not cool, who cares if SOME of the convos you have with him are good? hes only after one thing and i bet he wont give up easily, if i were you i would slowly just block him out, start talking to him less and less and stop showing as much interest in him and eventually he'll move onto someone else, trust me it totally isnt worth it girl!!

Theodore Hotwing · #4 (**permalink**) 03-30-2009, 02:48 AM

Report it...it's sexual harassment! I'd report it to the authorities...a restraining order would be appropriate...I would be really afraid of a creep like him. You never know if you could end up being a story reenacted on America's Most Wanted or something like that! He may be cool at times, but if you've ever seen the movie Disturbia...that middle aged creep nobody suspected...there are indeed people like that out there, and people who are actually worse! He can't be trusted in any way.