Feminine male needs advice and ideas on being more girly!?

JockFairy · #1 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 01:14 PM

Interesting question here, and I'd be really grateful for is ideas about HOW to do what I'm asking about.I'm a fairly odd combination: to the world in general I'm a 35 year old, manly, assertive, sporty guy. Nothing wrong with that. I like it and it's not a mask.However, it's only part of the story. Heaven knows where it comes from, but a large part of my emotions and identity are female (for as long as I can remember). If I was going to be honest, I would say that I'm half transgendered: emotionally, romantically and sexually. To illustrate, the songs I identify with emotionally are by the likes of'Banarama'(when I was a kid in the eighties) and the likes of Madonna or Britney now. Sadly, I look more like Clarke Kent than Buffy! I enjoy crossdressing as a private thing, but what I need are ways of expressing my female side in the real world: ways and places. As a boy from a working class town, I missed the female socialisation I needed. I need a big sister!

peaceoutworld!begroovy!!! · #2 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 11:38 PM

That's quite disturbing, but you are the way you are - and I admire you ability to unravel your emotions and inner feelings. You must have alot of bravery and confidence. I encourage you to continue to not be afraid to stick out and be different from most people.

Razzle · #3 (**permalink**) 03-30-2009, 08:08 AM

Well done for writing that, I think that's probably one of the best steps to be coming more feminine..not denying it to yourself.There are so many places you can visit and be accepted..sadly most are not in the straight world...just check the Internet.Id be your big sister if I could.good luck Hun.

emerald · #4 (**permalink**) 03-30-2009, 01:30 PM

Women carry go!Over to you, give him advices,I think it’s better to youBaby, do you have make-up compliments?Would you like to pump-up your breast and have it sexyWhy not go for surgery plasteringDo you have a man friend?Ask him to treat you like a womanA real man caring for you will get you feel the way you wantBut, he will never be able to get you pregnant!