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What can I do to help my male best friend who is getting a divorce?
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Old 01-04-2009, 09:55 AM
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They were married almost 21 yrs, and have 2 daughters, and she told him 2 weeks ago that she wanted a divorce. He has withdrawn from everyone, says he does not want to talk to anyone right now, needs some time alone. He goes to bed early, and stays in the house alot. We have been friend for 25 yrs, and we have always been able to talk about anything, and now it feels like he is shutting me out of his life, and will not talk to me. I know that he needs time to deal with this, but I would like to be here to listen and support him during this tough time in his life, because he has been there for me to talk to when I had alot of bad things happen in my life. I told him I will give him the time he needs and respect his wishes, and not offer any opinions about the divorce. I just am very concerned about how he is acting right now, it just breaks my heart that he is hurting like this. It is not like him to act like this. Please give me some good advice on how to help him, but not make him mad

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Old 01-06-2009, 11:54 PM
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He will come to you when he is ready...Just be his supportive friend until then.
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Old 03-14-2009, 07:40 AM
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Offer him a BJ!This method has been tested, practiced, condoned and approved by Presidents!

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