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Old 12-13-2008, 12:58 AM
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i was with this guy and everything was going perfectly. But after a while he started getting really jealous. He got really suspicious anytime that i went out with my male friends. After a while, i found out that he started cheating on me with this girl that was going out with my brother at the time. So, i broke it off with him. But then, i started to get these feelings back for him and i think tht i want to go out with him again and i really do think that he still likes me too. I mean this guy was my first love. The problem is that i have a boyfriend. Should i give up my boyfriend for my ex or should i just leave everything the way it is.

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Old 12-14-2008, 11:27 AM
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keep this in mind and never forget it.... once a cheater, always a cheater.
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Old 12-15-2008, 09:19 PM
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been there. done that. you'll just keep getting your heart broken. give up on love. it doesnt exist
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Old 12-17-2008, 04:42 AM
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no co's history will repeat!
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Old 12-17-2008, 06:13 PM
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wow, really your going to go back to your cheating boyfriend, your depressing
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Old 12-20-2008, 02:03 AM
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Ppl just never learn. Go back and get screwed over again and again.
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Old 12-22-2008, 07:52 AM
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Don't do it!!! You have to move on!You will give him all the power in the relationship, her will treat you worse and cheat on you.You need to separate yourself from this situation!
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Old 12-23-2008, 10:28 PM
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you answered your own question JEALOUS does not fit into any relationship
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Old 12-27-2008, 11:12 AM
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well if cheated on u but like went all the way with her its bad but still it happened and u shouldn't forgive him or if u want make him work hard for ur trust and love
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Old 01-04-2009, 07:16 AM
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This is very simple: Leave everything the way it is right now.Are you going to risk giving up your current boyfriend who hasn't cheated on you for the guy who did cheat on you?That shouldn't even take you 2 seconds to think about the answer for.You have confirmed history of that guy cheating on you so why would you jump back in the same boat again and risk getting hurt real bad? Let the feelings go; you need to learn to have control over your feelings. Weigh out the good and the bad and consider your options. This isn't really hard, it's just very logical.
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Old 02-25-2009, 02:36 PM
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No think about ur boyfriend now what if he did it to u. Plus people never forget there first love but you'll get over it
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Old 03-23-2009, 03:08 PM
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Agreed with the once a cheater always a cheater, also if he got really jelous, how do you know that will change. If your happy with your boyfriend now then stick with him. I would not run the risk of splitting with him to go back, as if he hasent changed his ways you could end up with nothing. At the end of the day though only you can make the choice.
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Old 03-24-2009, 06:24 PM
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DO not dump your bf for your ex that cheated on you !! if you are thinking of going back to the cheater ! then you obvi dont love your boyfriend PERIOD soo break it off with both of them and be single for a while, seriously.
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Old 03-30-2009, 06:12 PM
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No do not leave your boyfriend if you did how would you be any different than your ex. And unless your ex has had some serious counseling he is not going to change, it will only be worse, with him cheating on you and making you feel bad about it. And I don't mean this bad but he would probably leave you for"the next best thing". Leave him alone
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Old 05-29-2011, 08:43 PM
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Men are shameless, don't go back. You might think that you like him and he likes you and why not go out, but trust me he will do the same again, trust me because I know.
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Old 05-29-2011, 09:54 PM
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sounds like the guy is trying to have his cake and eat it too

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