my marriage, all advise is welcome..please help me?
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my marriage, all advise is welcome..please help me?
I have been married for 8 years we have no children. My husband changes jobs a few times a year and he lies to each of these companies. He went as low as to tell one of them that his parents died. I have caught him in several lies. Last year we were actually Turing to get pregnant from Aug 05 to almost the end of Dec 05. I never got pregnant. He had some arguments and then it got to the point like it has in the past that he threatens divorce, takes his wedding ring off at me, says I am a waste of his time, the marriage is a waste of time, he has packed up a suitcase and his truck and has threatened to leave. I went after him a few times. Now I don't. I love him but I feel like I deserve more. We have had sex 2 times this YEAR!!! I do not think that I am ugly. He has told me in the past that he does not think that we are connected anymore. I am scared to be by myself. All of my family and family friends wonder why I am still with him. Please help me I don't know what to do anymore.
what the heck are you waiting around for...to be beaten up? GEt the hell out of this mess and find someone who is in love with you. You are wasting both your time and ours. You know it, we know it.
Honey all that emotional trauma is not going to be doing you any good. You need a man that respects you enough to not be saying those hurtful things to you, the fact that you have stuck around thus far only means he knows he could disrespect you even more. Leave him, and find someone who will respect you for you, treat you like the woman you are. If you stay around I am sorry to say, things could get alto worse than they already are. Just thank God you didn't get pregnant yet, things happen for a reason, this is your chance to move on! Good luck!
YOu need to be strong I mean this is not a good relationship and it's probably a miracle that you didn't get pregnant from this man. If I were you I'd leave. There are tons of people to go out and meet and many who will treat you alto better then that. You deserve better!!! YOu can do it!!!!!!!!!
Wow, it sounds like you are in a hard relationship. It also seems to me that his actions can be considered abuse. As hard as it is you might want to consider seeking marriage counseling to work through some of your troubles or even a divorce if the counseling does not work. You deserve a man who treats you with respect and is completely honest to you. Your family and friends will support you if you decide to leave him. Good luck!
Being alone is way better than being treated like this. Dont be scared. As long as your wasting your time with him you will never find anything better which you deserve.
Being scared of being alone is Soohal! Think of it this way...would you rather be with him in a miserable relationship or alone where you can be happy? Sometimes it is best to lose that ugly baggage. Especially when you know that you are a worthy person. Shame on him for making life so difficult for you. I find myself repeating myself in all of my answers, but, I too was in an abusive relationship (you do realize that you are, don't you?) and have found that once I got away from him that my life turned for the better. You are just scared of the unknown, which can be truly wonderful if you let it!
he doesn't deserve you!! It's scary to be by yourself at first but sometime it has to be just you before you realize that maybe that's better than then the emotional abuse and that will also help you see what you really want as far as future relationships go.
WHY WHY WHY are you still with him??? You can't change anyone, believe me, been there done that. You either have to accept him for how he is (DON'T, you deserve better) or you have to move on.
Leave, start over, make yourself a GOOD life honey.
Leave him. Let him go. You deserve way better. Listen to your family, they are there for you. Let the guy go, he is definitely not playing with a full deck. In Germany they say "he doesn't have all his cups in the cabinet". Get rid of the guy, move on. Let him go. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
leave you deserve better if he cant treat you with respect and show you love you dint need him.we all hate being alone but its best to be alone then unhappy and miserable.your family is right it will probably hurt to be with out him but prayer will help you heal you deserve better.good luck
my marriage, all advise is welcome..please help me?
