group sex in a marriage...my friend needs your help cause i dunno what to tell her!?

WELL as you say they have only been wed for 3 years, BUT i thought getting married was for the reason of the couple being faithful to each other, they are NOT being faithful if they have other sexual partners, even if they both know about it, after only 3 years there sex life should be spiced enough, BUT there must be something wrong if her hubby wants to have sex with other people, I would get rid of him, he is the problem,

sounds to me like he is not getting satisfied with there sex life and its a easy way out for him to cheat,,and she loves him enough to at least think about it...3 years is kinda soon to need a spice up....she needs to confront him maybe even some counseling ...hes got cheating on his mind.....if he doesn't want to open up to her or go to counseling,,,she might want to set him out to the curb

You need to ask your friend these questions.Doesn't she think that love making is another form of showing their love?So if he is having sex with someone Else then why should she think she is special with him?The last question u need to ask your friend is why she thinks she doesn't deserve a mans full love and all of what he vowed to do in his marriage vows.

sounds like alto of fun

Usually not always when a marriage gets outside the box sexual it usually spells its downfall. I have a friend that was part of a group sex between a married couple and the wife left her Hubie for him. It is boundaries that help keep marriages together. If her husband wants to be with other people the bond cannot be too strong and I would question the validity of their relationship.

Advise her to put her foot down. If she stays in the marriage she must know that he is willing to be faithful. Open relationships are not really relationships but more so friends with benefits. These usually are not close and nor lasting relationships.

Just remember a well place word can do wonders for your friend.

Any intimate relationship outside of the marriage is adultery. Also inviting others to have sex with ones spouse is just ad king for trouble. I do not care what they say, somewhere down the line someones feelings are going to get in the way and that's where the trouble starts. Short answer it's a bad idea

if she is worried about what GOD would think then she should read the Bible. if she is worried about her marriage then she shouldn't do it. I don't think this is a very hard question...if he wanted the marriage to work he wouldn't have brought this up three years into the marriage....i hope there aren't any children.
bottom line.....bad idea.

What consenting adults do in their life is their business. If they are wondering if God would be mad or upset then they know what the bible says. The answer is within their own hearts and she need not ask you what you think because you are not going to have to live with the consequences if any or outcome if any negative.

Sounds like the first step towards divorce. How many couples do you know that actually get closer or "spice up their sex life" in these situations? Who the hell can be OK seeing their partner have sex with someone else? Ok, never mind I don't want to know. And no this does not fit the Bible version of marriage. Tell her to rent some porn, and see a marriage counselor.

There are MANY ways to "Spice it up" WITHOUT screwing someone else. Did they ride the "special bus" to school? How the hell does watching...or knowing that your spouse is getting....or being sucked off by someone else spice things up? Good gravy what is wrong with people.....I too am confused....and I think you need new friends.

Aside from the fact it is adultery, it will end their marriage w/in 5 - 7 years, on the best of scenarios.
Professional marriage counselor of 16 years.

WOW...this is one for the books....first thing...if she's asking if God is going to be upset...then yes...of course he will...if she reads the bible...monogamy is quite straight forward...one man one woman..together for life....no extras. sex clubs, swinging, orgies...etc...this would be classified by "christian circles" as sinful, deviant behavior. So, if shes a church going christian..then this isn't the avenue for her....toys etc maybe.
and extra sex partners can add complications to any relationship . However, if their relationship is strong...then all the power to them