Unable to perform sex in 1st 20 days since marriage. Please help!?

That's a tough one, you would better go for professional help.

I don't suppose growing up before marrying was an option either you or your wife were willing to consider?

use lots of lubrication and take it slow

I think you bought a duff one there. If you still have the receipt take her back and get a new one

Turn the light On ,well lubricate your head and go forward

Use some lube.

Go to the adult store and buy some lube.

Make a liquid explosion on her.

can you send a naked pic of her to my email so i can see if she is sexy . use some thing to make her pussy slippery and make you slippery , it does take practice and she will get looser after about about ten time s. if the both of you cannot relax and have a good time then it makes it a lot more difficult for the both of you . try both getting drunk use oil and relax

Should sort out this problem privately, you are describing the details too much over the web, the whole world is reading, your wife will not forgive you if she reads it!

Take is slowly with your wife, you need to get her ready to have sex by stimulating her using your hand or your mouth. Perform a lot of foreplay before you try to enter her.
It takes women much longer then men to get sexually excited. She needs to relax so that it wont hurt and she needs to be wet down there as well.

Read this and it might help

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foreplay

Good luck

Ok, here's what you do:
1) Find the closest high school
2) Find out when the football team meets for practice
3) Wait until the end of a particularly energetic practice and toss her into the locker room. Say the words: "It's DVDA time!" Trust me, they'll understand.
Pick her up in about three hours. You will find that not only has the "tightness" problem been solved, but she's learned some fun new tricks as well! Happy honeymoon!

Look you have to make feel pain until her vagina gets loose put some baby oil or Vaseline on your penis to let it slip in ....... you have to be careful these stuff might burn her from the inside and and not healthy for some women ........ she's the type of small penises like2.5" and 4"

Use a lot of KY Jelly

see a sex therapist....or get a bigger girl that can handle such a thick piece of meat!

first of all, what a crappy thing to say "i dint feel much sex on her" then why did you marry her. I would guess that you're biggest problem is not how "thick" you are, or how "tight" she is; its nerves. She needs to relax a little more, a woman's body can accommodate any man, providing shes relaxed and confidant that her husband wont hurt her. As well, she probably knows that you find her sexually unattractive, so that is only heightening her anxiety. romance her, go slow when entering and if necessary use a lubricant to help. Love her for who she is.....all of who she is, including her body

2 things:

1. She may not physically be able to accommodate you. Small vagina, big penis. Not good.

2. You will have to 'break her in'. This takes effort and patience on your part.
a. Slow and shallow intercourse preceded by intense foreplay.
b. Incredible detail on pleasing her first which will allow her to expand and give maximum acceptance of a large over sized penis.

Good luck.

sexual attraction is very important for intimacy. however, since you are already married, try to concentrate on her positive points and you'll be OK. about the tightness it may be a sexual dysfunction. This is wen the woman is SOpooared of the act that all her muscles surrounding the vigana contract and tighten. Try to get medical as well as psychological assistance.

Good luck

Wow, you're brave, saying your wife's body is not sexy. That's pretty harsh, if you ask me. Well, as far as some tips that may help. You need to "warm" her up, not a few kisses and then Mr.happy is awake and you want to get to it. Unfortuately, for you, women need sometime to warm up, you got to "Prue-heat" the oven, foreplay and all kinds of stuff. And if you say she doesn't have a sexy body, why would you try any foreplay on her erogenous zones, which then makes me wonder if you just want to get to "it" right away. Anyways, lubrication would help also, if she doesn't "self-lubricate" very well, if that's normal for her. You also have to encourage her to relax, but make sure she wants too. She's probably scared and tense, so it's harder for her at first. Just have patience and be a little more understanding, and keep your brutal honesty to yourself.