He is completely ridiculous. There is no reason to stay with this guy. I was in the same position. My ex was the same. He always made me out to be the bad guy. He was never around and never listened or remembered anything I would talk to him about. It was so hard to leave him, I was so depressed because I thought I had messed things up for our daughter. But I am so much happier. I don't care what he thinks anymore, he can try to make me feel bad but it doesn't work anymore. I know who the selfish one is and I know that I did the best thing for my daughter and I. You know what is right. You deserve better, it'll be hard, but you need to be happy to be a good mother and a good person.