First off stop letting him get to u.. go on with Ur own life in the house hold as if he is now just the fixture, make it clear to him if he wants out so bad to muster up the balls and leave but your not going to be pushed into being the one to leave just because hes to big of a coward to do so.. stop doing all the WIFELY duties.. start just doing for u and Ur daughter, go get itself a job even if its just a low paying one just to get Ur foot in the door so to speak let him know Ur not going just cower and take his sh(t.. your a strong woman, that doesn't need to be pushed around by a man, and your a mom that needs to do what is right by her daughter.. and needs to be a role model to her what would u expect her to do in the same situation that Ur in????? U'd expect her to stand up on her own two feet and get her daughter through this and if he doesn't want to come along for the ride, that's his choice, but ur going to get ur act together now cause his threats of divorce make it a MUST NEED to now get something started so he cant leave u high and dry and pennyless.. So find your back bone and let him know that your not going to be his toy to push around when ever he feels like it, he's either in this marriage or he's out, but HES going to be the one to decide and untill he realizes which way he wants to go ur going to only worry about u and your daughter , and when he wants to be a loving husband again then u'll treat him as such and be a loving wife till then he can kiss your azz..
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