You have two choices.
You can honor the "better or worse" clause of the vows you made to god and your husband.
You can break the vow, for what ever reason you choose to use for justification of that action.
What, did you think that part was there for "romantic" reasons?
Either you meant it or you didn't. You choose.
If you are looking for "moral" support for leaving your husband, you aren't gonna get it from me.
I could have found valid reason to leave my relationship <especially the way I felt about them at the time> at least ten times. We have been together 18 yrs.
Love is about finding the way to make it better. Marriage is the commitment to do that for the other... no matter what, until death.
I suspect that he would be less angry if his wife had taken the love, honor, and cherish part a little more seriously.
My opinion is that you were far too young to get married and have children. I feel the most empathy for the children.
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