I believe in interest at first sight - although most of the time it doesn't translate into love in the long run. Sometimes it does, and I think this is what people call "love at first sight" (i.e., you felt interested from the beginning - happens often - AND the feeling grew and blossomed into love over time - doesn't happen that often).
And yes, I believe it's possible to know before 6 months' time if this is the person you want to marry. I knew after 2-3 months that I wanted to marry my husband. My parents first went out in April, and were married in June; they've been married for 35+ years. It's all possible. (Just as it's possible to date someone for years, get married, and wind up divorced in a few months.)
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