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Old 08-06-2010, 01:19 PM
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i just got married last night. and my wife is already get tin on my nerves. i dint want to tell her right away...but this is not going to work out. how many days or weeks (if i can handle that) should i wait to tell her??? she is driving me nuts. i want to jump out the window or off a cliff.

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Old 08-11-2010, 01:19 PM
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so leave
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Old 08-14-2010, 01:19 PM
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then jump JK jugs try sticking along and slow down and settle in talk things over carefully
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Old 08-19-2010, 01:19 PM
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the longer you hold this the worse its gonna get. future advice dint get married. it doesn't make love more magnifying between the two of you, it can only complicate things and put you Ina corner in the long run. stay together buy promise rings and leave it at that...
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Old 08-22-2010, 01:19 PM
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Hit her with a shovel, if you don't have one, i can be over tomorrow at 6
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Old 08-27-2010, 01:19 PM
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dude,just relax and talk to her tell what makes you go crazy or bugs you..Ive never been married but i would fight alto with my ff..i would not care if she got mad at me or didn't wanna talk to me but when we broke up 2 weeks ago...and now i feel like shit i miss her so much..dint do something your going to regret in the future..
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Old 08-30-2010, 01:19 PM
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It takes time to get used to one another, be patient and maybe go for a walk to calm down. How did you not notice this behavior before you got married? How well do you know her, maybe you should get an annulment if you can't work it out
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Old 09-03-2010, 01:19 PM
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It is impossible to tell right now that your marriage is not going to work, you just got married! As a man, I can assure you that all women are the same. Just try to do your best and remember, you can't get rid of your problems by getting another woman, it will be the same or worse. Instead of using your computer, enjoy your honeymoon.
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Old 09-05-2010, 01:19 PM
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Aww, why is that, have you tried talking to her. Surely you would have known much more about her personality before you got married. How long was it before you got married that you were together. If you only have known each other for a very little time then surely this is to be expected as your still in the process of getting to know each other. However now that you are married you should try and def talk to her about what it is that is really annoying you about her, you must love her to have married her and I cant believe that you are complaining after one night of marriage. Marriage is for life, you are and will come across many situations in your married life many of which are going to be difficult but as husband and wife I hope you will both have the straight to overcome them and anything. Im sure what is annoying you is something minor and can be sorted if you both talk about it. I wish you all the best with your marriage and married life. Come on its the honey moon period you should be both having lots of laughs and fun not complain about little things.
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Old 09-06-2010, 01:19 PM
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Be nice about it explain to her in a nice way how you feel what is a marriage if you can't communicate
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Old 09-07-2010, 01:19 PM
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As a woman, I think I can speak for most AND your wife when I say- You Piece of f!@#Inga Sh!t!

I can not believe that you MARRIED! your WIFE! and your doing THIS to her a day after!! What the hell were you thinking when you were up on that alter, exchanging vows in front of your GORGEOUS WIFE and AAAALLLLL your friends n family!

You are the lowest Ive ever seen! Seriously!! You are nothing but a low-life, Pussy!!

Like WHAT?! YOU DIDNT HAVE THE BALLS TO SAY SMTHNG BEEEEEFORE YOU MARRIED HER????!!!!

How sad is that?! I feel SOOO bad for your wife! She should leave your ass with her head held high and no regrets JUST BECAUSE your an effed up A$$ hole who FO SHO doesn't deserve ANYTHING CLOSE TO HER!

If you aren't happy being with the person your with, NEVERMIND MARRIAGE FOR A SECOND!! Then its obvious that you leave them. Ofcourse this sounds completely out of the question for you because you dont even have the balls or back bone & common sense to think of this yourself- I dont know!! If I was supposed to be marrying someone, I sure as HELL would make sure I didnt feel the way YOU feel about the person.. What are you STUPID!!!!

You dont stay with someone out of pity just because you feel bad!! Thats even MOOOOORE selfish of you. Let her go, if you cant handle your marriage & YOU dont want to stay then you stand up like a man, tell her what you want, if she cant give that to you then you have to leave.

Then she move on with her life, find an outstoundingly better guy than YOU, and be happy.

..which is what she deserves!

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