I need marriage advice from married couples. plz dnt be rude! ?

lovely · #1 (**permalink**) 12-12-2008, 02:03 AM

me and my boyfriend plan on get married so we can be able to be with each other because we are from different countries. I'm really nervous because we only been together for a yr and we're only 19. Anyone get married early in a relationship at a young age and still making it through their marriage? or just advice? btw we really love each other and life has made us very mature for ours ages. so the playing around stage is all done and over with.no its not a internet love affair eitherthe different culture thing was a really big struggle but we know each other now and we learn to compromise and talk to each other

djd · #2 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 12:46 PM

i would wait i got married at 17 and now I am having an affair i am 25 and got bored with the whole married life thing. make sure it is what you want. and for the love of god dont do it because you got knocked up or a green card.

j bone · #3 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 01:50 AM

if you want to break up then get married. no one stays married anymore cuz we all hate eachother and can't stand eachothers guts .

Elizabeth · #4 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 02:11 AM

Im marrying by bf in march. by that time we would've been together for a yr and 5 months. i'll be 22 by then. i never thought i'd be getting married this early but now i can't imagine not being married to him. If you've found your guy go for it.

LAL · #5 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 12:03 AM

Married at 20...divorced at 22.Married at 30...still married 29 years later.You're only 19, you're not mature. Your life is just beginning and you are delusional if you think that the playing around stage is done. What's the rush, just enjoy getting to know each other. You have a long ways to go.

castmom24 · #6 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 10:52 PM

I was married @ 17 and we celebrate are 10 year wedding anniversary in a month if you love each other keep it fun, and talk good luck!

sassy101 · #7 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 11:51 AM

Personally I think by thee way you started this question that you should not get married. You say"me and my bf plan on get married so we can be able to be with each other because we are from different countries". That isn't a reason to get married. I married my first husband at a young age as well so that he would be able to stay in the U.S. and not be deported. What a mistake. Don't get me wrong we loved each other and really wanted it to work. We were together two years before we got married. The thing is as you get a little older you both change. Alot of times you don't both stay the same people that you were. You are young, this is the time of your life. Don't get married yet. 50% of all first time marriages fail. The odds aren't in your favor to begin with. If you are even begining to question wether or not you should marry him, the answer is no.Good luck to you, from someone who has been in your position