I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?

me! · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 03:34 AM

I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...I know it sounds crazy, but kissing is very special to me. I'm worried about my first kissing being in front of a crowd of people at my wedding. I'm worried the kiss will be awkward since it will be my first kiss. It'd be embarrassing even if it wasn't awkward, just since kissing will not be comfortable yet. Should I save the kiss for after the wedding? But then everyone will ask me why, and my family doesn't know about the kissing thing. If we do kiss at the wedding, should I announce that it's our first kiss? I would like to announce it since I'm proud of it, but I'm afraid I'd be super embarrassed if people knew it was the first kiss and worried people would think I was bragging or making it seem like I was better than anyone else. Does anyone have any advice? By the way, kissing before the wedding is not an option since saving the kiss is very important to me.Many of you are wondering how I'd find a guy who's okay with saving kissing...I'm in a serious relationship now and we've been dating for THREE YEARS and we've never kissed, for which we are both very excited.

ryanunara · #2 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 03:39 AM

omg, are you serious?

briannne (L) · #3 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 01:36 PM

if by kiss you mean sex then ok cool.but if by kiss you mean kiss, that is a little weird..i think kisses are harmless

boley52 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 08:35 PM

I wanna know how old you are....because honestly, that just simply cannot happen. Sex? Yes, you can wait till marriage...but kissing someone? How are you going to find a guy that is going to court you long enough to marry you without even kissing them? Seems a bit ridiculous.

Jack Bauer CTU · #5 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 05:09 AM

just go read some articles about how to kiss or something and im sure you''ll do fine

babyeliphantz · #6 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 04:45 PM

Well if you want I guess you guys could hug after you are pronounced man and wife, and then save the kiss for the honeymoon? But I don't know, I've never heard of saving your first kiss. Also, you prob won't find a guy that hasn't even kissed someone else before you, is that important to you too? A fellow kiss-virgin?

Smiley sun shine^_^ · #7 (**permalink**) 01-12-2009, 09:06 AM

THeres a very slim chance u'll find a guy who wants to do that...Its possible tho...but very hard.

LADiE C · #8 (**permalink**) 02-15-2009, 04:48 PM

i THiNK THAT'S REALLY SWEET, AND N0THiNG iS WR0NG WiTH THAT. D0N'T BE EMBARRASSED AB0UT Y0UR FiRST KiSS. iT D0ESN'T HAVE T0 BE A L0NG PASSi0NATE 0NE, iT C0ULD BE A CUTE LiTTLE 0NE. N0THiNG iS WR0NG WiTH THAT. S0RRiE i D0N'T HAVE MUCH ADViCE, BUT i D0 REALLY THiNK THAT iS SWEET.

jennifernichol13 · #9 (**permalink**) 02-17-2009, 02:36 AM

I think it's great that you have this goal! If anyone judges you, then let them. They will only be jealous that you had enough will-power, and motivation, to make this such a big thing for you! Be yourself, and don't let anyone bring you down about this. I will tell you though, sweetie, that it will probably be hard to find a guy these days, that will accept that. But, I know there has to be someone out there for you, with the same morals, and goals. Keep being you!

lululemonlover<3 · #10 (**permalink**) 02-18-2009, 03:40 AM

okay, well, i guess you've made up your mind, and kudos to you for not compromising your personal beliefs. I guess people will just have to accept that. And if you're first kiss is on your wedding day and really awkward, i guess it is what it is.

xohuggzlvr · #11 (**permalink**) 03-13-2009, 11:01 AM

How can you not kiss someone. I am 13 and I couldnt even do that. Good luck with that........your going to need it.