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I guess it's kinda sad that I am going to ask relationship advice on Yahoo! Answers, so don't judge me, I really don't have anyone else to ask.That being said. I've been with my BF now for about two years. I'll start by saying that we've both been faithful to each other since the beginning of the relationship. I trust him that he wouldn't cheat, however I am a pretty jealous guy. Before him and I started dating he was in a long term relationship with a girl. He dated her for 15 years. They broke up, but still remain friends. She doesn't know that he's gay. So she doesn't know about me. She thinks he's single. Anyway, he asked if it would be ok if he went to Vegas with some friends that he grew up with. I can't afford to go so I can't go with. I really have no problems with him going with these people. They are from his church so it's not like they are going to stripclubs or anything. Anyway he bought his plane tickets and hotel room which are both non-refundable. A few weeks ago he told me that she called him and said"suprise I bought tickets and I'm going with". I think it's wrong of him to go to Vegas with his ex girlfriend. I can't tell him not to go cause he's already bought his tickets, and it's not like I can tell him to tell her that she can't go. What should I do? I really don't want him to go but I can't stop it. I basically trust him that he won't cheat but I don't trust her. I don't want her to throw herself at him. Also, now it's about principle. He just doesn't get why I'm so freaked out about this.Any advice would be great. Thanks!
Okay, you obviously trust this guy! (But you don't trust his ex).But with all that trust, you must know that if she wants to do something, he won't- b/c you guys have this relationship and trust!Just remember that!And if you're still worried, talk to him about it before he leaves!
Well if you trust your boyfriend then there should be no problems. Look you've been going out for 2 years. Don't you think he would have already broken up with you if he was cheating? He likes you just don't worry too much about it and everything will be fine.
In my opinion I don't think your boyfriend is going to get back with his ex. Well, you can't help yourself being the jealous-type, talk to him about it. Express your feelings. You have every right to be feeling jealous. But if he really wanted to cheat there is nothing you can do about it. So just trust him. good luck
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