relationship help!!! please give your advice.?

jane d · #1 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 10:27 AM

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 months. he is my longest relationship and i love him very much (he is the one). we have a considerable age gap that we are both okay with. we have recently began having some relationship problems. as in problems... i mean we fight and bikker way too much. (about the stupidest things too) i need some relationship advice because i want us to work out more than anything. i know we have it in us... we just some things to change. please help. thanks.

Spartan 760 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 01:11 PM

Its normal to fight in relationships if u dnt then somethings wrong but just phuck him more

rkrell · #3 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 04:24 PM

It is all about communication. Some times the best thing you can do is refuse to fight. Resist the urge to be defensive and instead of fighting turn to talking things through. There needs to be a commitment by both of you to do this.

jaclynh66 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 08:32 PM

maybe the age gap is too much ones more mature then another.

Rachel · #5 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 01:00 PM

It's normal to fight about stupid things, but just talk to him. Tell him how you're really feeling. There's no reason to give a relationship that has lasted that long over something stupid, so just tell him you don't want to fight anymore.Best of luck.

banita l · #6 (**permalink**) 01-12-2009, 10:15 PM

As you go along in a relationship you will see things about the other person that annoy you. And the same goes for him. If these are things you can not deal with in the long term you need to rethink your relationship, and what you expect the end result to be. If they are silly bickering for no apparent reason, make sure it's not something you are picking on because of a bigger problem , if not, just let it ride. No relationship is peachy all the time.