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Old 12-17-2008, 03:11 PM
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I've recently come out of a horrible relationship. I'm feeling a bit low and wondering if you have any advice?

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Old 12-18-2008, 08:49 AM
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go on and have fun with your life
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Old 12-18-2008, 09:28 AM
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Well for a start forget about this looser. no one deserves to be treated horribly! Secondly you need to get back your slef esteem. Go out visit your friends, build your relationship with them. also keep busy don't sit and mope about.don't rush into another relationship until you are 100% ready, the last thing you need is a rebound.hope that helps hun.
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Old 12-18-2008, 08:42 PM
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Understand this. If you tried to make it work the best you could, you would walk away without ill feelings. If you only gave it half of your effort then you will feel bad. We tend to feel guilty about the things we are guilty of.
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Old 12-22-2008, 02:15 PM
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Go out and have as much fun as possible...Avoid places that remind you of him though, but have fun fun fun...I know it is difficult, but its the only way to get back into your own skin and feel like you are living again.
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Old 12-25-2008, 01:48 PM
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you have too have trust, and never any jealousy EVER !!!
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Old 12-26-2008, 02:40 AM
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just look forward.
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Old 12-31-2008, 01:26 PM
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Although it hurts now, you will get over it. Just remember you're a great person who deserves to be treated great, and never let anyone treat you badly again.
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Old 01-09-2009, 02:08 PM
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Get back in touch with what makes being single great. No doubt, most people would agree that they'd rather be in a relationship, but that doesn't mean it's the end of the world if you're not in one *right now*Go out with friends. Catch up on some reading. Do social things. If you need to get it out of your system, make out with a guy or seven at the bars... nothing boosts self esteem more than feeling desired.
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Old 01-16-2009, 02:48 PM
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Stephanie my dear, keep your head up. take the time to heal and pick yourself up off the floor. make sure you spend time with your friends and try to keep your mind off it. it will be hard to do (i know!) but don't do anything to drastic. find yourself again. forget about this person who has hurt you so bad.
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Old 02-19-2009, 08:40 AM

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If it was a horrible relationship then dont feel low. Relationships are like human bodies. If it is healthy it is best but if it get disease then the sooner is the better. In todays world there r many ppl who r ready to luv u and die for u. Just look around and U wil find someone more capable and more caring and more supportive. Be cheerful as it is newer late to begin a new life again.
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Old 02-27-2009, 01:56 PM
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Learn from it. But for now, just go out and have fun as a single girl again. Enjoy the benefits but don't let yourself get too far. Go do the things you never could when you were in a relationship. Clear your head, take a vacation, do some cleaning, go party with your friends, and then when you think you've come to peace with the break up, start to reassocaite yourself with the things you couldn't right after the break up. Once you've done that, give yourself a little mourning time and then, get ready to go out there and catch a good one for yourself! You go girl. You really can do it. Remember, one step at a time. Good luck.
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Take time for yourself now., Find a hobby, meet new people, go back to school. This is your time now, enjoy you're new life!

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