i seriously need some relationship advice!?

Lol.Im not so good in this type of questions.Go seek professional help

Im the same way but doesnt it seem that in the begening everything is fine they want to see you everyday and then like a month or 2 later you start to have your little fight what i try to do is just treat them the same way i did in the begeening and maybe they wont change either. or just stop being so clingy wait for them to call you dont ask them if they wanna hang out wait for them to ask you.

well it would help if i knew your age but since i dont...you just have to be natural and let things run their course. Besides focusing on the relationship, focus on other things in your life that make you happy or other things that you enjoy doing. Also, focus on the goals you are trying to accomplish, because no relationship will A. pay your bills or B. Achieve your dreams. You have to take a step back and realize what else is fun and exciting and important in your life ebside these relationships. it seems you get so caught up in them that this is all you focus on. you need to adjust your focus and focus more on you and your life.I hope this helps becuz i have previoud experience with this type of issue as well. I leanred and our relationship is so much better..going long and strong for over 2 years.

Sounds like you put all your focus on the relationship, too much focus, and therefore you must be unattentive to other areas in your life. Find a balance -- have a well-rounded life -- keep busy in other areas as well. Don't call the guy so much, only call him back. Keeping yourself busy in other areas also will keep a healthy perspective and prevent you from the line of obsessing, you know? He'll respect you more for allowing space and time to be comfortable.

It is probably not you who has the problem. Some blokes do not want committment, to be `mothered` or to see someone with the exclusion of others, including their mates. Some men do. Regardless of that, men also like to do the running, the organising and the whole `courting` thing if they are interested in you. You probably don`t allow them to do this and it makes them feel inferior which will never work. You have to get used to the idea that you are likely to get hurt and you also need to understand that constantly thinking your fella is going to cheat, will probably make it happen

There's no'easy'way of learning how to be easy-going - it will come naturally once you've learnt to trust someone.I'd advise you to limit yourself on how often you see him, do things together but also set aside time to do things individually (eg. let him go out with his friends whilst you go out with yours) and just let the relationship progress naturally. Don't rush into telling him you love him when you've only been dating for a few weeks, don't tell him he's'the one', just enjoy each other's company and try not to worry about things.I can't teach you how to relax and trust him because that's something you have to learn yourself. After a few months when (hopefully!) your boyfriend hasnt cheated on you, hasnt screwed you over, you'll realise that he truly does want to be with you and no one else and you'll find being easy-going a whole lot easier.Just try - I know it's hard - to not add any pressure on eachother to be something you're not. Let nature take it's course, so to speak. Trust him. Relax. Don't be so frantic to hold onto the relationship that you end up scaring him away good luck x