Relationship advice?

susi · #1 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 04:29 AM

My ex and me mess around a week ago. He and me were in a long relationship but he say I push him away. It happen that now we are in the same state, and so he started dating this girl, and well they have problems. He say I did not want him and so he chose her. Then last weekend, he is telling me how happy he was with me and how he wants to be with me. I am confused he always does that. I know it was wrong of me to mess with him, I felt awful since I never done something like that because I would not want that to happen to me . I don't know if he still does have feelings for me or what I am so confused. Advice Please

youthpastor1955 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 08:46 AM

Does anyone speak proper English anymore? Are our schools really this bad?

oldknowitall · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 01:19 AM

Sorry to say, honey, he got what he wanted. That's all.

fluke · #4 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 06:18 AM

he is just using you for sex. move on.

Learning2livelife · #5 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 03:43 PM

If he has a history of being indesisive then that should make an impact on your choice. Also if he did allowed this to happen while he is dating someone else this too should impact your choice. I would cut your losses dear. It doesn't sound like a good situation to get involved in.

dangerzone61 · #6 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 05:03 AM

Send him packing. He obviously isn't getting what he thought he was going to get so now he's trying to head back into old familiar waters. He'll continue to use you and then hurt you cause he thinks you're a pushover.

Julia Y · #7 (**permalink**) 01-24-2009, 02:18 PM

relationship goes two ways, and sometimes you really have to search for the answer by yourself. good luck.

wantsshy · #8 (**permalink**) 02-24-2009, 07:00 PM

forget him move on... this is a recipe for disaster