13-15 year olds? relationship advice?

heytherecatherine2094 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 07:01 AM

my best guy friend and i like eachother, but he isnt allowed to date. but, we have decided to be bf/gf without his parents knowing...this is each of our first relationship, and we ont know what to do to make it different than out relationship as just friends....any advice?lol...this guy is not gonna get me pregnant...trust me!

scared17 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 01:51 PM

well i think its kind of bad that u are hiding it and going behind yalls parents back.. but i also think its harmless as long as you arent having sex... becuz u dont want to end up like me and be 17 and pregnant its not good.... so be careful

domo9043 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 06:14 PM

hmmm well if I were you. I get to know each other better. A bit of cuddling and stuff

Katie K · #4 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 12:12 PM

hold hands, kiss, date, get jelious when te other talks to someone who might possibly steal them, kiss some more, spend every waking moment thinking about eachother, kiss, send slightly explicit texts, kiss.... and so on.

nikki · #5 (**permalink**) 02-14-2009, 09:24 PM

i honestly don't think it's a good idea to go behind his parents'backs. if they ever find out, they will probably ban him from seeing you and it will ruin your friendship with him. sorry, but it's the truth...

XxJust_A_NerdxX · #6 (**permalink**) 02-27-2009, 08:40 PM

lol that one answer where she said'don't go making babies'made me bust out laughing. Haha.As for your question, at your age there isn't really much more you can do to become more of a relationship. I mean, of course you get to kiss and cuddle, but that's about it. Even when you get older there isn't much of a difference between being in a relationship and friends, besides the physical stuff. Which is why I never quite got the reason of people stressing to be in relationships. All I can say is just have fun. Your dating and that's awesome, but I wouldn't hide it from his parents because if they find out, his parents are going to have a bad impression of you. They probably won't trust you two, either. So have fun, just don't make any mistakes.