Need Relationship Advice....serious advice only?

Ok...so I am in a relationship that started as a friendship until sex was involved. I explained to him that I didn't want a relationship because I had just ended a prior relationship and I needed to get myself together and focus on more important things like my kids and education. Well after going back and forth and not wanting to hurt him because I knew he loved me, we moved in together. I still was reluctant towards a relationship but I compromised. Fast forward....I am now miserable and ready to move on. I have a job offer that I am accepting in another state to get on my feet and get a fresh start. I have given so much of myself to him and I am burnt out and I explained to him that I have to do this for me and my children. I am torn because now he is mad and hurt and I am don't want that guilt nor do I want to loose our friendship which we should have remained friends in the first place. Please advice....

You have to do what is right for you and the children. It is his choice, not yours whether to remain as friends. All you can do is offer. It will hurt, but has to be done. Luck, girl.