is taking relationship advice from someone who's never been in one rather silly?
i took a lot of my relationship advice from my two best friends each of which are 20 years old and have never even been in a relationship, and both of which, quite frankly seem a little relationship-disabled. one of them has done this with multiple men(only seeing one guy at a time but the same scenario) guys that she has a lot of feelings for but only once or twice in a month and usually sleeps with the guy when she sees him and they never are offically dating although they do go out on dates its not just sex...and they don't call on a regular basis. my other best friend has sex with one of her gay best friends(male) on a regular basis as well as hanging out with him all the time. they are basically in a relationship, but not because he's"gay"and at times they do sleep with other people and they both would stop if they found other people they were interested in a relationship with. this has been going on for about a year. so i took a lot of my advice from these two, who are bothnow that i think about it, not really qualified to give me advice although both of them are very intelligent people. a lot of the other advice i took was from my mother and my ex-boyfriends mother. my mothers advice always seemed very biased...is it not a great idea to take advice on relationships from your mom as obviously she wants the very best for you and at times too much? my ex's mother seemed to give me the best advice out of anyone, however she seemed to also be a little biased (she wanted me to eventually marry her son). so who should i seek relationship advice from if not my friends, but its like asking batting advice from someone who's never even held a bat or hit the ball.
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