You should definately watch out for older guys who might be looking for a girl who has no expirience because thats what they are looking for. Stick to someone your age this way you guys will be facing the same things as you get older. It makes more sense to date someone your age for various reasons. I mean if you in grade 7 and theres a guy that likes you who is in grade 10 [highschool], hes looking for one thing because he probably knows that you haven't had that much experience dating. He thinks its going to be easy, just don't even bother with him hes too old! A good sign in a person is when they treat you like a good friend. They have to treat you like your best friend would there should be trust, liability, responsibility, honesty, loyalty&maturity. What you shouldn't do is do something that you think someone wants you to do because your scared they will lose interest. If they aren't willing to wait for you then its just a waste of time. In a relationship the two mates should always be willing to wait for one and other.