Relationship advice needed , can you help ?me and my boyfriend have a great sex life we dont miss a night , but like when i try to initiate sex he dont want to do it . but when hes ready its all about getting it on . Are all guys like this ? Why would he act that way ? could it have to do with dominating the situation ? any advice would help . what could i do to make him want sexits not based on sex , we do everything togather . Its just seems liek when i try to come on to him he is never in the mood , but when he wakes me at 3 in the morning i do it . just kind of hurts my feelings