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I'm in a new relationship, and I need some tips, PLEASE come, read and help?
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Old 12-30-2008, 12:53 PM
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Okay well, I'm currently in a new relationship with this guy who really REALLY likes me. I however had a strong past, and hence I don't like him as much, and I even told him I'd take time to open up to him. He's really sweet, and he is being patient. I think I'm ready to act to his moves. We haven't held hands yet but these few days we have gotten closer. Today he introduced me to one of his friends and said'This is my girlfriend'it touched me, and I felt he felt so proud saying that too. He was looking at my phone and I was trying to snatch it back, and then I'm pulling at his hand, then we like kinda held hands for a minute. He also whispered the lyrics to this song really randomly today while I was laughing. We stood reallyyy close to each other too.So anyway, through what indirect ways could I make him feel like I'm ready to move ahead with this relationship now? Btw, I'm very shy, so a major move is something I can't do.. so pleaseeeee help?PS - He tried to kiss me once, but I backed out because I got scared.. is there a way to let him know I'm ready to kiss him indirectly?Also, don't answer this if you wanna mock, save it. I'd appreciate answers from people who would like to help me out and are genuine. Thanks.

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Old 01-11-2009, 11:56 AM
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first off aww thats cute ahha. and i understand your shyness by girl, you gotta step it up and YOU make the move. YOU kiss HIM. plus he will love that your taking control for a min haha trust me itll work =]
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Old 01-17-2009, 04:40 AM
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For guys, actions speak louder than words do. Don't be afraid to just kiss him and let him know that you really care about him and appreciate him. You can always make the first move on him.good luck
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Old 02-25-2009, 02:30 PM
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It's scary when you start out in a new relationship. Communication and asking for what you want/need are really important in a relationship. Maybe you should wait to kiss him until you feel you can be honest with him. It was brave of you to tell him it would take you a while to open up. Maybe you can use that same strength to say something like"I'm ready to kiss you but I'm a little nervous."Being indirect with boys doesn't always work; they don't always pick up on subtle things. If you start out with openness&honesty, your relationship will probably be easier and clearer than if you try to hint at things.

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