Can the girls out there give me some relationship advice?

shortdude204 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 02:52 PM

I need to know why I can't seem to get a girl often and why when I do it never works out for more than a few weeks. I'm a really nice guy and my friends think so to. I have certain morals that I live by that people seem to love about me. But for some reason there always seems to be snags that I hit. Can I get some advice??

sweetdoe1720 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-11-2008, 09:46 PM

we do not like you guys to be to nice

Candace V · #3 (**permalink**) 12-12-2008, 01:54 PM

do some research look at your past relationships and dont be afraid to ask questions

Erika · #4 (**permalink**) 12-14-2008, 05:14 PM

Because you haven't found any girl good enough for you. it's not you, it's them. Aha. Well just be patient and try not to be shy. Be confident and be unique.

Sabriel K · #5 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 11:32 AM

I do. :P There should be more nice guys out there. Not just guys who want sex.

Sexy Homer is back! · #6 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 09:24 AM

Without more information on what these"snags"are, we probably cannot help you.But if you pay someone too much attention at first, it can seem smothering. And trying too hard to make someone like you (a.k.a. : being"nice") can feel manipulative, and is often a turn off. Maybe you need to be more independent, and more of a challenge at first. Don't spend all of your free time with her, but spend some time with your other friends.