New relationship.?

daria · #1 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 12:20 AM

I just met a guy. He is really nice. Trouble is, I been single for 7 years. We have seen each other a few times, it's been really nice, he is a gentleman, but I don't know when to take it to the next step. He seems happy to just go with the flow. I am afraid I may spoil it if I try to speed up the pace. He got divorced in Feb. Should I let him take the lead?

crazygal · #2 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 08:50 AM

just take things as they come don`t expect 2much

Disgruntled Biscuit · #3 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 03:50 PM

Just be yourself and go with your gut instinct. If you feel like you're going too fast, then slow it down a notch.

TAA · #4 (**permalink**) 02-21-2009, 09:00 PM

Yes let him take the lead. He hasn't even been divorced for a year! He shouldn't jump into a relationship right away. If he does then you'll be the"re-bound"girl... who wants to be that? Let if you guys go slowly and simply be friends for now... later when he's ready you can jump into a more romantic relationship.