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We're young, I'm 24, he's 22, relationship is excellant, always has been, although he's been a bit immature at times, he's still a really great guy and provider. He quit smoking 2 weeks ago and has overall been doing really well with it, wasn't grumpy at all, used the gum. Last night, we made dinner, things were fine, was going to go to the store, then just snapped within a second, it was like he got possessed and was like"i need a cigarette"and stared at me with these eyes I've never seen before, even grabbed my wrist really tight, then he went into like a destruction mode, ripping up papers, cutting stuff up, used a pocket knife and ruined our computer desk, and pretty much locked himself into a room and told me to"leave me the F alone", which I did, thinking he'd sleep it off and today would be fine, but then ignored me all this morning too.. I don't know what to do or what happened? He was fine, then BAM, crazy and I did nothing, yet he's taking it out on me.. advice?? Help??He's never done other drugs in his life, it wouldn't be that, it doesn't even make sense that it's really the cigarettes because it's been 2 weeks and he's been fine, it's just weird, and I'm not sure how to respond to how he's acting..
He's a nicotine addict. Just like a heroine addict he is without his drug. Stopping cigarettes is just as hard or harder than stopping heroine. No kidding.If he has such violent outbursts, you should take evasive action. Tell him you won't put up with that kind of behavior, leave when he acts like that.
ouch, this sounds like to mental abuse, I quit smoking cold turkey and I was a pretty heavy smoker for 10 years, every body has the chance to control what they do and what comes out of there mouth. I hope you don't exscue this behavior and if you do you just let him know that he can act this way and nothing will come about it.