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My new long distance relationship is having problems! HELP! please?
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Old 01-06-2009, 08:39 PM
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Im in a really new long distance relationship. We met in a very strange way, but are crazy about each other...or so I thought. We went from things being amazing and talking all the time to I cant get him to even answer my calls or text now. What should I do?I mean if space is what he needs why cant he just tell me? Before we were official he was engaged to this girl and she left him for someone else. He told me he was scared and we talked about it for awhile but I left it at that. A few nights later he asked me to be his girlfriend.I just dont get it?

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Old 01-19-2009, 10:20 PM
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Unless something is seriously wrong(maybe give him a little more time) then find someone closer..life is short
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Old 02-03-2009, 01:50 AM
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wait it out , i was in one when i was in the army, the whole not knowing thing really messes with people , with a long distance relationship , there is alot of give and take. whats more important, your mental health , or some guy 8 bizillion miles away
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Old 02-03-2009, 04:54 PM
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I would give him some space. Try not calling or texting him for a couple days. If he comes around he better have a good explanation. If he doesn't come around...why do you want to be with a guy who can't even tell you he's no longer interested?
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Old 02-22-2009, 06:24 AM
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Oh geeze, I went through the exact same thing as you are. We were dating for 2 months.. short I know... but our relationship was going PERFECT in that time - guess I should have seen something coming huh? lolAnyways, after awhile it got hard for me and him to talk and get together and we sorta just.. broke apart - that is after a big fight we had..but still.It was hard - but I moved on, but to answer your question...just wait a little while. Like a few days before you call him again. Or just wait for him to call you - it might not be you and maybe its something else This probably wont help.. sorryBut anyways ,good luck

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