Question on New relationship?

dsarkdsamed · #1 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 10:04 PM

My bf and I have been together for nearly a year. Things feel totally fine when we are together, I feel safe protected and nothing in the world matters, all problems just melt away, Its always so hard to leave when we must part.But, when we are apart, and he doesnt get in contact for a little bit, and we don't see each other as much as I like, I start feeling neglected and analysing situations when I am without him for too long, I start doubting us and get depressed, like I see cracks and I am so scared its gonna fail.I am wondering whether these doubts I should take notice of them, is this a sign it won't work? or whether, I am just insecure and these feelings are all in my head.Is this normal in relationships should we be feeling like this if we hope to be together long term.Did anyone feel like this and did your relationship work out?Thanks for all your time an any input!

Crystal H · #2 (**permalink**) 02-07-2009, 04:16 PM

you are too attached to him...you need to try and give yourself some space...go out and do more stuff with your friends...try not having to be with him so much..because if it doesnt work out it is going to be very hard on you if you arent out doing other things....also spending alot of time with him...you just arent doing enough things to make you not think that its not going to work....

Tamtam · #3 (**permalink**) 02-25-2009, 12:45 PM

yes its normal honey dont worrytry hard to not overanalyze and make sure u hav ur own life away from ur boyfriend so ur busy wiht things to do when ur not around him ...if u become too clingy this will not be good for ur relationshipu seem to like each other a lot so stop worrying and enjoy it if u keep worrying about nothing ur jsut gona make it end before it has togood luck!