i'm in a relationship and sorta not sure what to do. i care about this guy and dont'wanna lose or hurt him. but he has a way to go with God before he's in a relationship, i can see that, he needs to grow more spiritually. also i have my fears of being used or played and i would like to not be in this relationship so that i can try moving on sorta to see if the way i feel for him is just cuz he's my only option being so that i'm in a relationship with him. i know i dont make much (or any!) sense but i'm really confused and would really appriciate any friendly advice. i'm to the point i don't know what to do and i want the Lord's will but can't seem to find it!!!oh but this guy tells me he doens'ty wanna lose me adn he hasn't said he needs to break up, it's me with the questions. he actually insists that he's fine...