Relationship advice. My boyfriend was using me!?

dominicana<3 · #1 (**permalink**) 01-08-2009, 11:57 PM

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now. Lately we have been getting really serious, even making life plans together. So, last night we decided to come clean about any&everything we may have lied or stretched the truth about in this relationship. He admitted to me, that in the beginning, he was using me for my money. His reason was"I had no idea that we would be where we are today". When we first got together, he had just lost his job. So, I helped him by giving him gas money&giving him money to eat. Over time, that money added up... So I stopped giving him money&he hasnt asked for a penny over the last four months. I'm so angry that he used me, that I want to leave him. But at the same time, I dont want to make this decision based on the past, because I truly believe he's serious about this now.Advice please !Thanks in advance guys =]

Twilightlover12 · #2 (**permalink**) 02-12-2009, 06:30 PM

that jerkif i were you i'd leave himthere is a guy better than himwaiting for youbut if you really want you can stay with himthe thing i wrote first is what i would do

Cherri · #3 (**permalink**) 02-13-2009, 07:25 PM

Well, you had to know by coming clean that you might hear somethings that you might not like. You had to have prepared yourself. It sounds like you are taking a chance on the relationship with him. Maybe he is sincere now and maybe not. I wish you the best.

doctor_ashley · #4 (**permalink**) 02-17-2009, 08:50 PM

he used you