Can anyone help me out? It's about my new relationship.?

aida · #1 (**permalink**) 01-09-2009, 05:16 AM

This is really complicated to explain. So please if you don't have anything nice to say or any help to give me, do not reply to this.With the events that occured in my life last year. I am afraid of falling in love. I've been in love twice.&&both times, someone ended up breaking my heart. However last year, I didn't know how to react to it, because the heartbreak hurt terribly.Now to the point. Over this past weekend, a guy I liked came and talked to me, and now we're going out. I am trying my best to let myself fall in love once again. But yet, I am very afraid.&&I keep trying to find reasons not to stay with him. However, he is super nice, and he treats me right. I just don't know.Can anyone give me advice?

Bubba-jane · #2 (**permalink**) 01-18-2009, 02:00 AM

i think u should just let things happen, go with the flow, if he's a great guy and treats u right, and u like him then there is nothing to be afraid of. u can do it!! ;}Good luck and have fun dont be to afraid to have fun with him, b/c then u wont!

sexyblonde · #3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 01:08 AM

accept that these other 2 heartbreaks are in the past and move on. if your new boy appreciates you and loves you, you stay with him. Hes the kind of guy any girl should want.

todayillsee · #4 (**permalink**) 02-11-2009, 07:18 PM

First of all, you couldn't have been in LOVE twice last year, you probably just had FEELINGS for them. And second, you can't just let someone go that might be good for you , just watch the signs this time, because if you have had your heart broken twice you are bound to see it coming now. Plus he may not even hurt you, you might be with him forever. Don't be afraid to put yourself back out there and see what happens.